On Cosplay and Community

I’m the weird one.

Spending a couple days at Anime North with my daughter and 36 498 other people is an eye-opening and inspiring experience. It’s not at all my usual crowd but it is fascinating and fun. (I had a t-shirt made up for the weekend that says “I don’t really understand this, but my kid loves it”).

I expected lots of costumes, and I’d say more than half the attendees are dressed up in a huge range of outfits. Some are stunning, some are simple, and some I can’t make sense of at all. But what I’m noticing is how many people seem to walk with great confidence in their chosen character, and not just within the convention buildings. Local hotels, sidewalks, and fast food restaurants are full of people dressed as elves, warriors, cartoons, and all kinds of fantastic creatures. There was even an unrelated wedding happening in the hotel surrounded by all these unusual sights.

Some of the social interactions I get to observe as I hang out between panels and workshops demonstrate awkwardness, and conversations I overhear reflect passionate opinions about niche topics. But there is a supportive and welcoming vibe where everyone seems to have a place. It’s cool to see people who might not often be at the social centre being stopped and asked for photos by total strangers or getting excited when someone from a shared fandom sparks a moment of connection.

There are also very clear rules published and expectations shared to help ensure everyone’s safety. It’s not “anything goes” and the accommodations for those with different physical, neurological, or social needs are thoughtfully prepared.

I find myself thinking about how wonderful it is when people are given the opportunity to express the things that bring them joy. It appears to be contagious.

If we’re honest we have to admit that all of us are wearing costumes of some sort everyday to portray something about who we are and what matters to us. The corporate office blazer isn’t much different from the bright yellow Pikachu costume.

The difference here is the diversity. When there are so many different looks, it becomes delightful when people find someone who shares their fashion instead of the typical sense that anyone who diverges from the norm is out of line. In this community even wearing a black t-shirt with moderately clever slogan is fully welcomed.

I’m not suggesting that our workplaces, board rooms, and worship services should embrace elaborate armour and fursuits; but there is something to be explored about what it means when people can share the things that brighten their lives.